Seemingly at the height of the Pandemic more and more people became “Aware.” Aware of their true feelings about their jobs, relationships, friendships, themselves and for some even their marriages. With all of this awareness, the emergence of therapy, healing and ending situations, places and people became prevalent. Therapy and talking about ones feelings became the norm for women at least.
My come to Healing moment came after I simply could not get what I wanted in life. I could always see the carrot dangling in my face but, I could never grab it! I had to get real with my self and take the reigns of my life.
Have you ever asked yourself, "What is the meaning of life?" or wished for a better life but didn’t know where to begin? Wishing alone won’t change your life. The true power lies within your mind to manifest your dreams—but that power needs direction.
Every woman, including You have been through some sh*t.
The kind of trauma that silences you.
The kind of heartbreak that makes you question your worth.
The kind of cycles that keep repeating.
But it doesn’t have to be your forever.
It’s time to stop settling.
Stop shrinking.
Stop pouring into people who leave you empty.
You deserve healing.
You deserve real love.
You deserve YOU.
Here are some of the Steps I took to receive my Happily Ever After on My Terms :
Step 1. Be completely honest with yourself and take a look within (Get a journal or a spiral notebook) and reveal your feelings about every area of your life. If you need help analyzing yourself ask the trusted members of your inner circle.
Step 2. Find a Therapist. After you have identified you pain points, talk to a professional therapist who will help you organize your thoughts.
Step 3. Do The Real Work. The work is all about being responsible for your personal development and healing your past traumas. The work entails; journaling, reading personal development books, meditation, writing out a specific plan and taking action behind the plan, putting yourself first and much more.
Nevertheless, if you don’t know where to start on a healing journey, or how to start over or pivot. I am here to help. It took me several years to learn and accept the lessons that life was teaching me.
That’s why I wrote "The Black Woman’s Step-by-step Guided Book and Workbook for Healing Trauma, Avoiding Fuck Boys, Attracting the Love You Deserve and the Life You Desire. It’s not just a book. It’s a blueprint for your breakthrough!
https://www.amazon.com/Workbook-Healing-avoiding-Attracting-Deserve/dp/B0D2LN9Q3H/
A step-by-step guided combined book and workbook of all of the things I wish I knew before becoming a young adult.
Trust me it's not an overnight process to reprogram your mind, but every day gets better and better. Months or even years later, you will be in the Life You Created and the Life that you Deserve!!!
Grab your copy today for steps 4-13 and learn how to get your power back. You don't have to do it alone.
Always remember that: You deserve a life of love, ease and pleasure