There are levels to everything in life. For the sake of making it plain. Let's say there are five levels-Level 1 being the highest you can go. I hate when people blankety tell someone they don't love themselves.
Perhaps their self-worth is a lower Level 5, while their self-confidence is at a Level 2. A woman can be very beautiful and confident in appearance but still accept poor treatment from a man for various reasons-that would be a self-worth issue.
The same idea applies to being labeled as "desperate." When people hear that term, they often picture extreme, bottom-of-the-barrel behavior. But desperation doesn't always exist at Level 5. For example settling for a situationship when you truly desire and deserve an established relationship with a loyal partner- that may be considered Level 2.
Levels also apply in other areas-looks, finances, education and more. For instance, you may want to have a talk show. Today, you could have a one-woman talk show on YouTube with a million subscribers and 10 million monthly views, and you might be considered at Level 1 financially. Or, you could have a syndicated talk show on a major network with a full production team behind you, enjoying fame but making less than the person on YouTube. Both women have talk shows-but they're on different levels depending on whether you're measuring fame or finances.
The same concept applies to providers or men with a provider mindset. A man earning $80,000 a year can provide for his family just as a man earning $800,000 can. The difference lies in the level. With more money, you're more likely to live a particular lifestyle and enjoy the finer things. $8 million, $80 million and $800 million are very different levels than $80k and $800K.
Determine what you want out of life-and what level you'd like to reach. As a constantly evolving human being, ideally you're striving to have your self-love, worth, confidence and esteem all at Level 1 in order to achieve Self-Mastery.
There are other aspects of mastering the self beyond the basics listed above. The same mindset applies to defining the lifestyle you want, what success means to you, the type of man you desire to partner with, how far you want to go in your career, and so on.
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