How to Receive Princess Treatment from Men
A man in your life should Offer you something on a consistent basis every week. An Offering is a thing offered, as a gift or contribution. Examples of modern day offerings are flowers, gifts, jewelry, and money.
A Man Obsessed with You or Generous Men
If you have to ask a man for money, to send you flowers or buy you gifts, then he isn’t obsessed with you. A man must see you as his dream girl, really likes you, naturally generous or one who’s mastered romance. Men who really like you, who's naturally generous will ask you if you need anything. Always, say yes! Here is your chance to ask him for money. Some generous men will put money in your hand every time you see them from the first date.
The Male Ego & The Science Behind Asking
Yes, it's true that most men are more likely to give money if there's a sense of rescue behind the need (a damsel in distress story) for example, a tire blow out, job loss, an emergency...someway for them to have power and come in and save the day. Other men like you to ask them for the money versus just giving it to you even if there isn't an emergency. They like that you need them. It's also a power play for them because you're in a submissive role where you need them and you're again coming to them for rescuing.
Men Should Cater to Your Wants and Needs
Both men and women have been conditioned into role reversal. Women are chasing men, shooting their shot at men, pursuing men, buying them cologne, gifts, paying for dates and more. I’ve mentioned it in several of my other posts that women are Goddesses and goddesses are worshiped.
A man should desire you, cater to you, send you flowers, money and gifts. Men desire women and chase them for sex, love and validation. If you want money, flowers and gifts, this needs to be established in your first conversation or within the first week with proper decorum.
Your Requirements Must be Established ASAP
Men are at there peak performance within the first month. You must establish your requirements at his initial peak which is the first few days up to a week. If you act shy or try to wait, he will think that you have no requirements and that you'll accept the bare minimum and he will not get any better than what you've allowed.
When you're initially getting to know men, they'll ask you in a round about way what kind of man are you looking for, what do you do for fun, etc. This is coded language for what your expectations are and the type of dates he should take you on. Don’t be vague, put it out there in your own words, and tell him you are looking for someone who is romantic, generous, gifting, providing… Generous, gifting and providing is coded decorum language for money and gifts.
Tell him the type of dates and the places you’d like him to take you when he asks what you do for fun. Their way of having decorum without saying up front “how much will it cost me and how long?”
It doesn’t matter if other women or saying similar things..men do it all the time. Even men with money who don't want to spend a lot of money always have a sob story of how the last woman they dated used them for money or played them. This is also coded for “don’t ask me for money” or priming you not to ask them for money, etc. Men who lead with sob stories is a huge red flag because their only intent is to use you while they do the bare minimum.
Again, another way, is to straight up ask. Never be afraid to ask. If you already know the answer will be no, before you ask, why would you deal with this type of man? He’s there to serve you. Don't forget that a man must consistently offer you something. This offering should be weekly dates in addition to; flowers, gifts, money, jewelry, trips and whatever else you want.
If he tries to shame you or call you a gold digger. This is an average and broke mans tactic that has been used against women for decades. If so, he’s not a right one, exit stage left.
Never Be Afraid to Have High Standards or Be Afraid to Ask for Anything
Always, be the woman who wants money, flowers and gifts. Be the woman who has high standards or a “gold digger.” If you need help raising your standards click here you can also grab your copy of The Black Woman’s Step-by-Step Guided Book and Workbook for Healing Trauma, avoiding F*ck Boys, Attracting the Love You Deserve and The Life You Desire to fully transform your Life.
Again, never be afraid! Men are not afraid to go for sexual advances without receiving your consent. How many men have tried to touch the small of your waist, rub on your legs, invade your personal space or go in for a kiss without asking? Men openly do these things because our culture taught them they don’t need to invest first. Men expect sex for nothing! Shift the dynamic back where it’s rightfully owed! Expect money and gifts for access of your presence, energy, time and body if you’re taking it to that level.
Quick Recap On How to Ask
- If you’re his dream girl you don’t have to ask or if he likes you or naturally generous
- Make it a requirement (you require, cash, gifts, flowers etc.) have the conversation from day 1 / week 1 (Just ask with decorum)
- Ask him (Determine what his Ego needs) Do you need a rescue story or He wants you to come to him and ask him as a form of submission. Either way, you must stroke the Ego and ask nicely
- If he doesn’t do it or says he can’t, move on, don’t waste your time giving your energy to a man who has nothing to give (offer you)
Men love to play. Make men play by your rules! It’s time to realize your worth!
And remember:
- No money. No honey.
- No finance. No romance.
- No offering. No you.
In short, in order to receive princess treatment, it must be required!
